In every major conflict, whether political, personal, or spiritual, there is almost always a sliver of validity on both sides. Grievances are real. Injustices are felt. Leaders on the “wrong” side can even articulate legitimate frustrations.

Picture yourself behind the wheel on a crowded highway at rush hour. You drive with the innocence of a dove, hands at ten and two, obeying every speed limit, yielding to merging traffic...